1) http://www.pualife.net/begin-the-game/the-essence-of-being-cool.html
This website seemed to be dedicated to enlightening men on how to be "cool" with the ladies. From the looks of the information on the site i assume that the audience it was targeted to is towards middle aged men who are lonely and have extremely low self esteem. What i found interesting about the site was that they made connections that were not obvious, they referred to the story of Adam and Eve, the idea that we are all a forbidden fruit. For a guy, women prove to be competition for men and that sense of wanting a women that other men want is a challenge. At the end of the day who ever can awe the women feel accomplished and feels "cool". We all want what we can't have, men want women that they know will be hard to win over... guess that's part of the thrill. How many times do we walk the street and either see women getting hit on, or are the ones getting hit on? i wonder how many of those times the men are hoping to start a life long relationship or just get with the girl, with the intention of hooking up and just having sex! All in all i think it has to do with the amount of confidence in a person, people who are confident are normally the center of attention, they just have what everyone wants which makes them "cool" by most people. if you don't care what others think that is also considered to be "cool" because then you must automatically be your own person.
2)http://lifestyle.iloveindia.com/lounge/how-to-be-cool-3148.html
According to this website being called "cool" is the "hippest" statement that a teenage can recieve... kinda sad that thats pretty much all we care about. But most teenagers would be lying if they said they didn't care what others thought of them. The same response always comes out when asked why are you "cool"? Most say because they are different, and have there own style. but how different can we all be? Everyone is influenced by some group someone else. Through out this unit that is something that has still to be answered, why do we care about being so cool? The idea does not make a whole lot of sense to me, how did this sense of the "cooler" you are the more power you have. Having friends has become more of a competition in this case, quantity is more important that quality :( the first example that comes to mind is facebook, it keeps of tracks of all your activity when your online, counting the number of friends you have. MOst of the people on you list you have met at a party once but u add them because hey thats one more "cool" point for you!
3)http://queenofrelationships.com/category/why-guys-like-to-date-the-cool-girl/
‘Cool’ chicks are in total control of her self, emotions communication and behavior in all situations. She has a great attitude, an awesome self-image, a high confidence level, great personality and is extremely emotionally mature. ‘Cool’ chicks set positive emotional tones with men that somehow creates a positive mood within the man. ‘Cool’ chicks create an atmosphere that men are totally drawn to.These ‘cool’ chicks, it’s like they are born naturals. There’s something that we can all learn from the ’cool’ chicks and it’s all about knowing and learning how to respond to men the RIGHT way. This is what men like! this website gives you how to guide to being a "cool" chick!!
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